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	<title>Comments on: A Survival Guide for Realtors: How to Deal with Difficult Clients</title>
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		<title>By: Search Henderson NV Homes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Search Henderson NV Homes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 06:41:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think this type of information is invaluable to realtors. Here in Henderson, realtors can be so snoody sometimes. If more realtors took this sort of advice more often I think more homes would get sold. More times than not I see it from the buyers agents. It feels strange saying it since it used to be the listing agents I saw it from the most. But it makes sense since a good buyer is a dime a dozen now. But its still no way to treat people. 

I really like to hear this type of advice. I think more agents should take note of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this type of information is invaluable to realtors. Here in Henderson, realtors can be so snoody sometimes. If more realtors took this sort of advice more often I think more homes would get sold. More times than not I see it from the buyers agents. It feels strange saying it since it used to be the listing agents I saw it from the most. But it makes sense since a good buyer is a dime a dozen now. But its still no way to treat people. </p>
<p>I really like to hear this type of advice. I think more agents should take note of it.</p>
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		<title>By: Branson Homes For Sale</title>
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		<dc:creator>Branson Homes For Sale</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 22:36:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We live here in one of the biggest vacation-home markets in the USA. And we are all the time having issues dealing with difficult clients.

One of our biggest problems we face are the clients who fall under the &quot;entitled buyer&quot; category. 

While we are always striving to provide excellent service to all of our clients, these guys make it so hard becuase it&#039;s almost like they are playing games with us and ultimately wasting our time.

I think the key to remember is that it is vital to seperate the serious buyers from the window shoppers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We live here in one of the biggest vacation-home markets in the USA. And we are all the time having issues dealing with difficult clients.</p>
<p>One of our biggest problems we face are the clients who fall under the &#8220;entitled buyer&#8221; category. </p>
<p>While we are always striving to provide excellent service to all of our clients, these guys make it so hard becuase it&#8217;s almost like they are playing games with us and ultimately wasting our time.</p>
<p>I think the key to remember is that it is vital to seperate the serious buyers from the window shoppers.</p>
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		<title>By: Rent to Own House Finder</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rent to Own House Finder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 17:02:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s always about finding out who your customer is. Having been in sales and real estate for many years it seems like I still am learning how to &quot;pigeon hole&quot; my clients so I know how to deal with them. the longer I am in sales the easier it becomes to figure out the best approach to use with them.

One of my all time favorites is to simple do a &quot;match and mirror&quot;. Knowing that people like buying from people they can relate to, I simply try to become like them. I match their voice in both pitch and speed. I even try to match their body language without appreaing like a copycat.

In selling rent-to-own homes, I am often times dealing with people who are excited about finally being able to get into a home  of their own. So, I try to match their enthusiasm. Works for me!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s always about finding out who your customer is. Having been in sales and real estate for many years it seems like I still am learning how to &#8220;pigeon hole&#8221; my clients so I know how to deal with them. the longer I am in sales the easier it becomes to figure out the best approach to use with them.</p>
<p>One of my all time favorites is to simple do a &#8220;match and mirror&#8221;. Knowing that people like buying from people they can relate to, I simply try to become like them. I match their voice in both pitch and speed. I even try to match their body language without appreaing like a copycat.</p>
<p>In selling rent-to-own homes, I am often times dealing with people who are excited about finally being able to get into a home  of their own. So, I try to match their enthusiasm. Works for me!</p>
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		<title>By: Homes for sale in Cadillac</title>
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		<dc:creator>Homes for sale in Cadillac</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 04:57:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Showing the market comparables to the know it all is great, but if they still think their house is worth more and aren&#039;t willing to listen to your professional advice, walk away.  You aren&#039;t doing anyone a favor by taking an overpriced listing that you know won&#039;t sell.  

It&#039;s hard enough to sell houses that are priced properly let alone overpriced ones.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Showing the market comparables to the know it all is great, but if they still think their house is worth more and aren&#8217;t willing to listen to your professional advice, walk away.  You aren&#8217;t doing anyone a favor by taking an overpriced listing that you know won&#8217;t sell.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard enough to sell houses that are priced properly let alone overpriced ones.</p>
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		<title>By: First Time Buyer Credit</title>
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		<dc:creator>First Time Buyer Credit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2009 14:48:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had a couple &quot;entitled buyers&quot; a few months ago.  luckily I only went our looking with them a couple times before I realized I was too busy to work with them.

They would call but leave no messages.  They would ask questions over and over, not remembering the answer I gave them previously.  And They wanted to buy a house at such a low price they&#039;d be practically living in it for free, even though they were able to buyer about double that amount.

Plus, they wanted to make 70-80% list price offers.  I said thanks for the time, and moved on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a couple &#8220;entitled buyers&#8221; a few months ago.  luckily I only went our looking with them a couple times before I realized I was too busy to work with them.</p>
<p>They would call but leave no messages.  They would ask questions over and over, not remembering the answer I gave them previously.  And They wanted to buy a house at such a low price they&#8217;d be practically living in it for free, even though they were able to buyer about double that amount.</p>
<p>Plus, they wanted to make 70-80% list price offers.  I said thanks for the time, and moved on.</p>
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		<title>By: Madison homes for sale</title>
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		<dc:creator>Madison homes for sale</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 12:08:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Suffice it to say that a little bit of knowledge can be a dangerous thing! I agree that the underlying issue with Know-It-Alls is that they don&#039;t feel heard or respected in other areas of their life. So I agree completely that giving them the recognition they crave is the most important way to put this kind of behavior to rest. Then you can get on with dealing with the facts!

The Entitled Buyer is a real problem. I&#039;ve never been good at telling people it&#039;s not okay to call after a certain hour or whatever. I know it&#039;s exploitative but if I really don&#039;t want to talk to them, I know I can turn off the phones. Most of the time it&#039;s not a problem though. I guess I need a life!

Developing techniques to recognize the Browser &amp; the Indecisive Seller early on in the process is one of the most important things a Realtor can learn to do to save time. The problem is that you rarely know you&#039;re dealing with one of these until the writing is on the wall, so-to-speak, and you&#039;ve already made a major investment. Recently I&#039;ve been brainstorming ways to get paid upfront (reimbursable if there&#039;s a listing that goes to close) for consulting to people who I feel are wishy-washy (e.g. at risk of changing their mind about listing). It&#039;s tricky but it can work and already has. It&#039;s a little harder to do with buyers but can be done and should be, especially when one senses there might be a lack of commitment. Open houses are notorious for producing &quot;professional browsers&quot; so Realtors should be especially on their toes to ask the right questions upfront. A quick, &quot;Are you from the neighborhood?&quot; can help weed out these time-wasters so you can quickly move on to better prospects.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Suffice it to say that a little bit of knowledge can be a dangerous thing! I agree that the underlying issue with Know-It-Alls is that they don&#8217;t feel heard or respected in other areas of their life. So I agree completely that giving them the recognition they crave is the most important way to put this kind of behavior to rest. Then you can get on with dealing with the facts!</p>
<p>The Entitled Buyer is a real problem. I&#8217;ve never been good at telling people it&#8217;s not okay to call after a certain hour or whatever. I know it&#8217;s exploitative but if I really don&#8217;t want to talk to them, I know I can turn off the phones. Most of the time it&#8217;s not a problem though. I guess I need a life!</p>
<p>Developing techniques to recognize the Browser &amp; the Indecisive Seller early on in the process is one of the most important things a Realtor can learn to do to save time. The problem is that you rarely know you&#8217;re dealing with one of these until the writing is on the wall, so-to-speak, and you&#8217;ve already made a major investment. Recently I&#8217;ve been brainstorming ways to get paid upfront (reimbursable if there&#8217;s a listing that goes to close) for consulting to people who I feel are wishy-washy (e.g. at risk of changing their mind about listing). It&#8217;s tricky but it can work and already has. It&#8217;s a little harder to do with buyers but can be done and should be, especially when one senses there might be a lack of commitment. Open houses are notorious for producing &#8220;professional browsers&#8221; so Realtors should be especially on their toes to ask the right questions upfront. A quick, &#8220;Are you from the neighborhood?&#8221; can help weed out these time-wasters so you can quickly move on to better prospects.</p>
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